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		<title>Comment on Benefits Of Outsourcing by silverblacker</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/144/benefits-of-outsourcing/#comment-151</link>
		<dc:creator>silverblacker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 21:24:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is﻿ in fact quite useful for my prep</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is﻿ in fact quite useful for my prep</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benefits Of Outsourcing by Jcolinsol</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/144/benefits-of-outsourcing/#comment-150</link>
		<dc:creator>Jcolinsol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 21:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Export the labor and pass﻿ the slavings on to you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Export the labor and pass﻿ the slavings on to you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Q&amp;A: How trust worthy is an employment agency who need cash fees instead of a CHEQUE? by Bigdog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bigdog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why are you paying the fee?  The employer pays the fee, and they usually negotiate a different fee than their asking fee.  And the company  pays the head hunter by check!  

I just thought of something, you may be dealing with an agency for secretarial pools, blue collar workers, temporary workers, etc.  I believe these require you to pay them.  If this is so, then they could very well be sitting on a stack of bad checks that they cannot collect on.  That may be the reason they want cash up front.  Why don&#039;t you ask.  And check them out with the Better Business Bureau and/or Chamber of Commerce.  If they have a bad rep, then these organizations would know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why are you paying the fee?  The employer pays the fee, and they usually negotiate a different fee than their asking fee.  And the company  pays the head hunter by check!  </p>
<p>I just thought of something, you may be dealing with an agency for secretarial pools, blue collar workers, temporary workers, etc.  I believe these require you to pay them.  If this is so, then they could very well be sitting on a stack of bad checks that they cannot collect on.  That may be the reason they want cash up front.  Why don&#8217;t you ask.  And check them out with the Better Business Bureau and/or Chamber of Commerce.  If they have a bad rep, then these organizations would know.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Q&amp;A: How trust worthy is an employment agency who need cash fees instead of a CHEQUE? by alison</title>
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		<dc:creator>alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It could be they have had too many bum cheques, so don&#039;t take them at all anymore.

Ask why they have this practice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It could be they have had too many bum cheques, so don&#8217;t take them at all anymore.</p>
<p>Ask why they have this practice?</p>
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		<title>Comment on HiTech Financial Accounting Software &#8211; Free Trial Download, Buy Online by thegreatsky2011</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/136/hitech-financial-accounting-software-free-trial-download-buy-online/#comment-147</link>
		<dc:creator>thegreatsky2011</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 21:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>advanced na gyud﻿ kaayo na technolohiya....! very nice</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>advanced na gyud﻿ kaayo na technolohiya&#8230;.! very nice</p>
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		<title>Comment on HiTech Financial Accounting Software &#8211; Free Trial Download, Buy Online by makeiteasyable</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/136/hitech-financial-accounting-software-free-trial-download-buy-online/#comment-146</link>
		<dc:creator>makeiteasyable</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 20:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ty﻿</description>
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		<title>Comment on What is the most important or most difficult employee relations problem that you dealth with? by Mel</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/135/what-is-the-most-important-or-most-difficult-employee-relations-problem-that-you-dealth-with/#comment-145</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 20:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There have been many of them:
-exec had an affair with his assistant, she ended it, he retaliated by giving her performance warnings, she filed a harassment claim
-employee had a mental breakdown during the course of several weeks at work, endangering herself and others
-a drug ring involving employees in the warehouse and receiving departments which required a partnership with undercover law enforcement
-a +$ 1M embezzlement case in which the FBI was involved
-a domestic violence case in which the estranged spouse was stalking his partner at work

Those are the few that stand out, but there are many more.  Generally what I wish I had in these situations is the ability to see &quot;the&quot; truth, rather than each person&#039;s version of it.  Everyone has their own perceptions, biases, interests, and agendas - it becomes difficult to patiently unravel all of the different threads into a coherent whole.  

It is also a learned talent to separate what you are able to control from what you can&#039;t.  I can&#039;t change an employee&#039;s domestic situation, or their mental health, or the choices they make (drugs, affairs, theft, etc.)  Experience has taught me that I can&#039;t &quot;fix&quot; everyone and everything, so I&#039;ve learned to focus on what can be fixed (calling in law enforcement, trying to get the employee referred to a therapist or doctor, etc.) and let the rest go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There have been many of them:<br />
-exec had an affair with his assistant, she ended it, he retaliated by giving her performance warnings, she filed a harassment claim<br />
-employee had a mental breakdown during the course of several weeks at work, endangering herself and others<br />
-a drug ring involving employees in the warehouse and receiving departments which required a partnership with undercover law enforcement<br />
-a +$ 1M embezzlement case in which the FBI was involved<br />
-a domestic violence case in which the estranged spouse was stalking his partner at work</p>
<p>Those are the few that stand out, but there are many more.  Generally what I wish I had in these situations is the ability to see &#8220;the&#8221; truth, rather than each person&#8217;s version of it.  Everyone has their own perceptions, biases, interests, and agendas &#8211; it becomes difficult to patiently unravel all of the different threads into a coherent whole.  </p>
<p>It is also a learned talent to separate what you are able to control from what you can&#8217;t.  I can&#8217;t change an employee&#8217;s domestic situation, or their mental health, or the choices they make (drugs, affairs, theft, etc.)  Experience has taught me that I can&#8217;t &#8220;fix&#8221; everyone and everything, so I&#8217;ve learned to focus on what can be fixed (calling in law enforcement, trying to get the employee referred to a therapist or doctor, etc.) and let the rest go.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Recruitment consultant Vs HR by reido4597</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/132/recruitment-consultant-vs-hr/#comment-144</link>
		<dc:creator>reido4597</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This perhaps the best thing I have﻿ ever watched!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This perhaps the best thing I have﻿ ever watched!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Recruitment consultant Vs HR by smurfyboypauluk</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/132/recruitment-consultant-vs-hr/#comment-143</link>
		<dc:creator>smurfyboypauluk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hillarious﻿</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hillarious﻿</p>
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		<title>Comment on Recruitment consultant Vs HR by scaryxpuppy</title>
		<link>http://www.childressconsulting.com/132/recruitment-consultant-vs-hr/#comment-142</link>
		<dc:creator>scaryxpuppy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 02:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have used the &quot;is there a man I could talk to&quot; many a time - never fails to get a chuckle - also good to use when waiting in a queue with a young female shop assisant who is slow, is to go to﻿ the front and just quietly say &quot;look, love, I know you&#039;re doing your best, but is there a man around who could help?&quot;
 - tee hee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have used the &#8220;is there a man I could talk to&#8221; many a time &#8211; never fails to get a chuckle &#8211; also good to use when waiting in a queue with a young female shop assisant who is slow, is to go to﻿ the front and just quietly say &#8220;look, love, I know you&#8217;re doing your best, but is there a man around who could help?&#8221;<br />
 &#8211; tee hee</p>
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